As I write this I’m currently away in Brighton part way through a course called Jewel, a 10-day advanced level of VortexHealing. Most of us on the course have been working with VortexHealing for the past 5 years or more and at this point in our healing journeys we are as a group working on some of the big issues that many people face.
Yesterday and today we worked on clearing the issue of Rejection in all the emotional, karmic and genetic layers we can get at in ourselves, as it is an issue we can be challenged with not only from our present life experiences, but also inherited from our parents, and even further back from ancestors and past lives. Before we worked on it I really didn’t think it was an issue that affected me but as we worked through the layers of emotional conditioning using this wonderful method of healing, I could get a real sense of where I had felt rejected in my life at times, and where I had rejected people and situations rather than deal with them. The freedom I now feel after working on this issue is palpable and I feel lighter and clearer as a result.
As practitioners when we work with VortexHealing it’s so important that we work on our own ‘stuff’ not only so we can be more in balance in our lives but also so that we can share with our clients how this therapy really can make a difference. From my perspective, the healing that has happened in my life over the past 5 years with this transformational therapy has made a dramatic difference to my sense of personal peace and wellbeing. And after working on my own issues I also know how much our issues can weigh us down and affect our relationships with ourselves and others.
During client sessions there are some core issues that I see many people struggling with, either with complete awareness that it is something affecting their lives or it will be running in the background and negatively impacting their lives and relationships. Some of these include:
- Abandonment: Feeling abandoned by those we love, which can stem from childhood such as having an emotionally unavailable parent or a loved one who died early on in our lives. It can also make us needy in relationships, fearing the other person will leave, or it can make us shy away from close relationships to avoid the pain of being abandoned
- Fear: Ranging from deep-seated primal survival fear that can be held in our systems over many lifetimes up to every day anxiety that stops us living a full life
- Lack: This can be a sense of never having enough, or being enough (not good enough/slim enough/wealthy enough/attractive enough/a good enough parent/partner/child etc), and it can make life feel lacking when compared to others
- Guilt: Blaming ourselves from things that we have done in the past, this issue keeps us stuck in the past and forever giving ourselves a hard time over what we have done, which as it can’t be resolved just keeps us powerless
These are just some of the common issues I see with clients but as part of our VortexHealing training we deal with the whole spectrum of issues that people are challenged with. One issue that I think is prevalent with many people is Co-dependency and many issues are very much connected with it.
Co-dependency can manifest itself in many different ways; you may be a people pleaser and need others to be happy in order for you to feel okay, you may be an overprotective parent or spouse being over-involved with the lives of your significant others, taking responsibility for their emotional wellbeing, or you may have control issues and need things and people to be a certain way in order for you to feel safe and okay.
This issue gets in the way of being authentically you in relationships which can lead to feelings of resentment, frustration or power struggles, or at the other end of the scale, removing yourself from close relationships all together because it is simply just too complicated. If you’re unsure whether co-dependency affects you have a read of this fantastic article that covers it in detail.
The good news is that whatever issues you are consciously dealing with or that are subconsciously affecting your life and relationships, VortexHealing can work on clearing them at a very deep level. Given that we only get once crack around the track in this life, letting go of old issues can be incredibly liberating and create a real sense of freedom for peace to emerge.
To get more information on how VortexHealing can help you, please check out the VortexHealing page or email firstname.lastname@example.org to book in for a session.
Wishing you freedom and peace,